Reminder

9:57:31 PM Steven Fong: hey
9:57:34 PM Steven Fong: thanks for checking up on me
9:57:37 PM Steven Fong: that was really thoughtful
9:57:38 PM blubrry x3 icing: =]]]]
9:57:49 PM blubrry x3 icing: what are best friends for? =D
9:57:51 PM blubrry x3 icing: *hugs*
9:57:56 PM Steven Fong: hehe true true
9:57:57 PM Steven Fong: *hugs*
9:57:59 PM blubrry x3 icing: :]]
9:58:08 PM Steven Fong: you're the best xD
9:58:15 PM blubrry x3 icing: XD no you are
9:58:18 PM blubrry x3 icing: cuz you're super patient w/ me
9:58:19 PM blubrry x3 icing: lol
9:58:21 PM blubrry x3 icing: suuuper patient

You really made my night right there :D

Sometimes I used to wonder when we did become best friends and the actual definition of a best friend. I suppose we become best friends recently after I went to college? At least that's when we got super close. Thinking about it, I remember that I initially thought that you'd probably just ask me for my opinion on Felix and such and then kinda stop talking to me. And also before that I would think that eventually you'd stop iming me every single day. Both those presumptions about were you blown away and you proved me wrong. I'm glad you did because it shows how much you care :D I don't think anybody else eve really did that for me; I mean stay in constant contact with me. Maybe that's why I was thinking sometimes that I treat you like a girlfriend or I act like a boyfriend or something when we both know we're not. I guess a lot of communication between each other displays that. Okay i'm not trying to say anything here, I was just pointing it out. And I'm not saying that it's bad because I love talking to you :D it's awesome to know that someone's there to talk to about anything really.

But anyway back to best friends. I think the actual definition of best friend is someone that you hold on to, that nobody else you know has that special bond. But sometimes I dont like to use the word best friend, only because I like friends that are close to me, and I don't mind having a few, which means I probably have a few best friends. Definitely you are one of my best friends, and Pedro is the other :D. Many examples follow. Lester's kinda lacking to be honest cause we don't talk a lot >_> but if he's there he's a really great friend as well.

Anyway to the main point, at one point I started to think of you as a best friend, but sometimes I was more or less afraid to say it, only because one it signifies a big attachment, something I try to avoid for obvious reasons. 2nd, I didn't know if you considered me as a best friend. I mean it's really obvious now, but something in me said maybe I'm not. Well I mean I am really close to you, but aside from me, I don't really know your friends, like Sae Lome, or Tina, or Seena or uh Angela, or Jamie. I mean they may be friends to you, but I wasn't sure how close they were since I haven't even been properly introduced to them xD I just kinda know them through you and Facebook. Anyway I guess it has to do with a past experience of mine, where I thought I had a best friend, but turns out his opinion of me changed over the years and I finally learned that I wasn't his best friend, which was kinda sad to me because he was like a childhood friend and I basically did everything with him. But I guess learning that, I suppose the definition of best friend is really complicated, and so defining it was very complicated as well, since two people have to agree. And there are so many people who are close that just the word "best" singles out everybody, and so I don't like having one best friend, I mean there is a go-to friend, that would be you :D But there are other best friends as well like Pedro.

Okay so I didn't really want to make this post long and I want to end on a happy note because you'd be reading it and you would get distracted and such xD, but the for reals main point that I was trying to make is that I'm really happy that you consider me as a best friend cause it really means a lot. Since you know, you are pretty damn popular :P and so I guess it gives me a big boost on self-esteem because I know there are a lot of friends that you could get close to as well :D Even if you had multiple best friends, like Sae Lome and Tina, I don't mind, I guess just having you say it means a lot to me and I really appreciate it ^_^

Btw, when you read this, it'll probably be a Saturday or Sunday xD Maybe Monday at the latest, but I'm going to sayyy Saturday cause you check this like hella. And of course, it was to make you study and not get distracted. Besides I would say this was a happy post so think of it as a reward after OWNING two SAT 2's because I know you'll just OWN it cause one you're the best (need I say more?) and you're DIANA CHOU!